Tuesday, May 1, 2018
Growing children will learn that it’s okay to be violent because they watch it every day.
Adult TV programs that contain graphic violence and excessively intimate scenes should be shown during late evenings, when the kids are already in bed.
It’s insincere and impractical for TV stations, or the Board of Censors to classify a program as for adults when they approve a time slot when children are fully awake.
Naturally, they can always have a peak of what’s going on, even if the parents send them away. For most poor families, they would be baby-sitting while watching an adult program, and what do you expect? Their children would be watching with them.
The next question I would like to ask is this: Why can’t TV stations, consider the monetary rewards last and prioritize in helping the country develop the non-violent character of children by choosing the plot of their stories judiciously?
They should demonstrate that peaceful negotiations can resolve conflicts and NOT violence. It’s not only sexually explicit scenes that we should censor from our children, but we must also ascertain that they don’t get exposed to too much violence, or else, they would eventually develop a violent character too.
It’s the responsibility of parents, teachers, the church, TV directors/producers, and movie producers/directors, to ensure that good examples are shown to the children from each aspect of society.
What we plant now and cultivate in our children, these we shall reap after a few years more. Don’t be one of the victims of your indifference today.
Act now and express your thoughts about how to curb violence in children’s programs and early evening programs.
Friday, June 15, 2012
The parents foremost, the school, the community itself and the government. Nothing succeeds unless all sectors cooperate in solving the problem. Take for example the problem of pirated movies.
Do we say, it's not our problem, it's the producers 'problem, they should be on guard and keep their copies under lock and key. We won't bother because we don't even earn from it. They alone are responsible in curbing piracy.
But of course, this is not the case, everyone has to step in and give his fair share to curb piracy. Even buyers should cooperate and buy the original CDs instead of the pirated ones.(Even if it means spending more.)
I once had monitored a certain group, and after the activity, someone lost her wallet. I had to gather them up and asked them to help in the search. One of them said, " It's her responsibility not to just let her purse lying around." Well, well, well, is this the kind of principle or values we want our children/youth to learn?
If honesty would have been taught, and the respect for other's property were the focus then, no matter where the purse was, it would always find its way back to the owner, because children would have learned that getting what is not your own is bad.
Saying that parents are responsible alone in controlling the TV viewing of their children is tantamount to saying, there are no other factors that affect the activity.
Government stepped in to warn people about smoking, alcohol, pre-martial sex, piracy etc, wouldn't it be logical and responsible for them to do something about TV violence in a supposedly for "general patronage "program? Isn't it their moral responsibility to see to it that children are protected?
We must remember that the future of the country and of the world are upon the children. Please read more of the articles in this blog and open your mind. Thanks for reading and for commenting. I appreciate it a lot.
By: Justin Swapp
If you want to prove something, you have to use the
to measure, and then measure it.
Photo by: Keith Bacongco
There are many people who would water down the effect that violence in the media has
on our children.
If there is any doubt in your mind, just spend a little time applying the scientific method – observe them.
As we start this discussion, it's helpful to understand a little about
During their earlier years, children are trying to understand their role in life by framing
it within what they observe in everyday life.
It stands to reason that if you feed your child a steady diet of bacon for every meal,
it's only a matter of time before the kid looks like a pig.
You are what you eat, as the saying goes.
If children have a steady diet of violence, it's only natural for them to experiment with
it as it relates to what they do every day.
If you think there is anything less than a buffet of violence out there for your children
to stuff their faces with, you are kidding yourself.
Here are some examples:
Internet, DVD, Blu-Ray, Xbox, Gameboy, MMORPG, World of
Warcraft, Comics, iPods, Music, Online Chat, Magazines, Movies, School, Cell Phones,
and TV – Now in higher-than-ever definition.
That's right, all the violent detail you could ever want, accessible from anytime, or
Most recently my youngest son, Alexander, got a hold of the remote control and found
his way to the
If you are not familiar with the
kids with martial-art-super-powers-and-costumes shows.
Alexander is two. At that young age, children copy what they see, and they test
boundaries. If you are a parent, you know this.
What do you think Alexander did? He got something he could use as a cape, and
hopped through the house, pausing occasionally to pose in a martial arts stance.
Then, he would find his nearest sibling, and practice a punch or a kick he had seen
on the TV show, complete with sound bites from the program.
He was acting out what he saw glorified on TV. The
seem to have the same effect on him.
TV and movies are arguably the most powerful mediums for communication that we
have today. The technology behind them now is extremely advanced, and made to
impact our senses to extreme degrees.
Trends in content seem to be advancing almost as fast as the technology displaying it.
It's more acceptable now than ever to show extreme content at all hours of the day.
Just look at movies like Saw or Hostle. These shows are out of control and
are the perfect example of gratuitous film making that marks our day and age.
It's well known at this point that violent situations cause a chemical reaction in humans.
This reaction is called fight or flight. We must act now.
We are surrounded by violence in every form of media. It's up to us now to either
fight, or run. As adults we have to protect our children.
We must fight this, not run. You have to fight this in your homes, but you have to also
find other avenues to fight the trend of violence.
Look to join forces with anyone fighting violence. Choose fight, not flight. Don't run
out on your children.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR:
JUSTIN SWAPP is from Ogden USA. He maintains a Writing and Literature blog - Finish Writing and a business blog - Swappratices.
In his blog, he provides invaluable articles about techniques and styles in writing and encourages aspiring writers to give out their best.
This is what he has to say for himself.
And I quote:
"I am a 32 year old with a BS in Business Marketing, and an MBA. Don’t let that fool you, however. I have always loved writing, and storytelling. I feel that reading and writing is extremely important, and I want to share what I can with those who find what I have to say useful. Write on, regardless of what they say. Write on."End of quote.
Such inspiring words from a knowledgeable blogger. Thanks, Justin for accepting my invitation.
Sunday, November 27, 2011
By: Dagupan Pangasinan
Gone are the days when you'd expect little children saying polite words like "Po and Opo". Sadly, some of them can even be heard saying words that adults say when angered. It wouldn't be shocking to see them copy a scene from one of their favorite television shows.
Wouldn't it be better if the scenes they are copying are good ones? You can't raise children by terror and expect good outcomes. You can't show a child something bad and try to explain yourself afterwards, it would be difficult for them to comprehend and accept. That's the same thing that happens when they watch something bad happen on TV and think it's a good thing. It would be difficult to tell them not to copy it afterwards.
You will often hear children ask why you're telling them not to do something they saw on TV. They might even believe the Television more than you. You can't tell parents not to leave home so they can teach children what is right from wrong in a Show all the time. Life does not revolve around a box with a plug. Television reaches a Large portion of our population. Can't it use it's influence to promote good values instead?
It's true that you'd usually see fight scenes in shows for adults, but why do we have such scenes even in Children's TV shows as well? Are the writers for TV stations even thinking it out. How can you can something of General patronage when it has content that is capable of ruining the youth? Although complaining does not always accomplish much, evil can survive in the silence of the oppressed. Voicing out what is right is what is fair. Every typhoon that takes a place by storm begins with a single rain drop, although there are few here at the moment, be happy knowing that many people are doing what is needed to make a change for the better.
Tuesday, November 1, 2011
By; Candice Regala
As a child, I wasn’t raised with my parents taking care of me all times of the day due to the demands of their profession. My father would leave home early in the morning and would go home only when the workload in the hospital can be managed by the other staffs. At most, he’d come home twice a week. My mother chose a work that has a more convenient time sched. She’d leave home 7 in the morning and comes back at 6 pm. The four of us siblings would be left in the care of our kasambahay and we’re free to do what we want so long as we’d behave and do our afternoon nap.
TV became our lives that time. We were so entranced by the actions and entertainments it shows to us. We became so desensitized that because of our young minds, we cannot anymore separate fiction from the reality.
There’s this cartoon we’ve watched wherein the “good guy” has thrown countless punches to the “bad guy”, the bad guy seems to be unaffected. One time my older sister and youngest sister got into a petty quarrel. My youngest sister claiming that she’s the good guy and is being attacked by the bad guy punched my sister straight on her nose making it bleed. What children see, children do and the parents play a great role in protecting their children against these acts of violence.
My mom has come to know this and informed our father who hasn’t come home for a week that time.
Whenever my parents come home and will approach us, it’s like they are stranger to us, when my mom tries to hold us we’ll recoil and would run to our kasambahay. My mom told us that she got so sad that she’d come home early everyday after work and slowly regained our affection. One day she asked us ‘Hindi niyo ba namimiss si daddy niyo?, and we replied, “Hindi, sanay naman kasi kami na wala siya palage.” My father heard of this and that was the last straw, he quit his work in the hospital and became a RHP like my mother, everyday they’d come home together and will ask us of our daily activities.:)share
Saturday, October 29, 2011
By: Federico Webster Magcalas
Issues and problems are divided into two categories; one part falls under the direct effect (short term) problems and the other part falls under the long term problems in which its effect would probably be felt after years. Violence in the environment of children falls under the second one.
Many of us fail to recognize these kinds of problems because we think that since they don't have an effect immediately, we should address them some other time. Little do we realize that little by little these problems will accumulate and one day will take its toll on you
I've heard a lot of mothers complaining about horrible children "as if they were raising terrorists". If only they knew that the root of it is because children see things they're not suppose to see that is why they're imitating it.
I mean we can't change the world in a minute, but think of the people you might help in the future just because you are aware and you condemn violence in children's TV shows. Probably not even .000001% of this population wouldn't even know that this group exist, but its okay because it is fulfilling to know that there would be 265 (at the moment) parents in the future whose children would be of good character because his/her PARENTS KNOW WHAT IS BEST FOR HIM/HER.
Sunday, September 18, 2011
No matter where you look, there's violence on TV, movies and media sources. Even supposedly simple non-violent scenes are now riddled with shouting, bad words, and physical violence. What is happening to our world? Nobody cares, no one in the media even cares, as long as the money keeps coming and they keep feeling their coffer.
Thursday, March 17, 2011
Even supposed to be mature persons do it to solve their problems. How can we teach children to be non-violent when our manner of speaking is violent, our method of solving problems is to commit violence against ourselves?
Can you leave some comments on this observation?
Sunday, March 13, 2011
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1. Do not overload electrical extension cords.
There is a limit to the amount of electric current an extension cord could handle. Holiday fire safety should be the utmost concern when installing these extensions. A proportion of one extension to two sockets would do. Three or more appliances connected to the extension cord could be a potential source of fire hazard.
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